Don’t go all-in with social media Until You’ve ‘Built a Shelf’

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Content gives people information. Branding gives that information context.

If you’ve been thinking, “Okay, this is it. I’m finally going to get serious about social media,” you’re probably being told some version of the same thing:

Post every day. Do a 30-day challenge. Show up consistently. Give value. Get visible.

I’m not against any of that.

But before you commit to that ‘yapping’ challenge, there’s something I want you to have in place first:

A clear brand and website.

That means people can tell, at a glance, who you are, what you do, who you help, and what sets you apart.

I love seeing coaches, consultants, therapists, and thought leaders showing up more consistently on Instagram or LinkedIn, but sometimes I see that person’s content and think, I like what this person is saying but I have no idea why they’re saying it.

And that’s a problem.

If you’re committed to building your social media following without first creating your own proprietary place for those followers to go next, you’re just adding to the noise in an already crowded feed.

I’m all for you committing to that 30-day visibility challenge; but I want it to amount to something. I want it to have an impact on your booking calendar and your bottom line. I want you to be ready for all those new followers.

Their brain needs somewhere to put you

There’s a concept in psychology called ‘schema theory’. In simple terms, we all use mental categories and frameworks to make sense of new information. When we encounter something unfamiliar, we try to connect it to something we already understand.

You can see this in young children.

A toddler might learn the word ‘puppy’ to describe a small, furry, four-legged animal. When they later encounter a kitten, they point to it and say “puppy!” They’re trying to make sense of something new, using a category they already have. They now have a mental ‘shelf’ labelled puppy, and they’ve done their best to figure out where this similar creature belongs.

Eventually, they learn that there is another category: ‘kitty’. Now their understanding of both animals is more nuanced. There are similarities and differences. 

Your audience is doing a more sophisticated version of this when they encounter you.

They’re trying to figure out: Who is this person? What do they do? Who are they for? Is this relevant to me? What should I remember about them?

When your social media posts are aligned with what you do, the viewer can put you on the shelf with other coaches, consultants, psychologists — name whatever category fits your business. This is good.

But when you have a strong and clear brand to guide you each time you post, and a strong and clear website to back that up, you can create a shelf of your very own in their mind. Not just labelled with the thing you do, but with the unique way you do it and who it’s for.

Content gives people information. Branding gives that information context.

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Great branding is a cognitive shortcut

It helps people understand what they’re seeing when you post.

  • Your positioning helps them understand what category you’re in.
  • Your messaging gives them language for what you do and the problems you solve.
  • Your point of view gives them something distinctive to associate with you.
  • And your visual identity gives them recognizable cues that reinforce all of it.

Because visibility needs to accumulate in order to become authority. Posting consistently gives people more opportunities to encounter you, but it doesn’t mean those encounters add up to anything.

Ten posts from someone with no clear brand behind them can feel like ten separate run-ins. Hopefully clever, maybe useful, but disconnected — you might remember a post, or even remember the person, but without understanding what you’d actually go to them for.

Ten posts from someone with a clear brand land differently. The topics can vary just as much, but underneath them is a consistent identity, point of view, and area of expertise. Each post is another piece of the same puzzle. Whether you need their services today or not, you get it.

That’s how visibility turns into authority.

And authority is the goal. You want to reach the point where someone runs into a problem you’ve talked about before, and thinks: I know exactly who can help me with this.

That’s a very different outcome than a few posts performing well.

So, before you start that visibility challenge

Before you commit to posting every day, make sure you’ve built somewhere for that attention to land:

  • A strong brand that tells people who you are, who you’re for, and why you’re different. 
  • A website that feels like you, and gives people somewhere to go when they want more. 
  • A point of view that holds all of it together.

That’s what turns a pile of posts into a marketing strategy.

When your content is grounded in a real brand and a real body of ideas, you’re not starting from zero every time you open Instagram or LinkedIn. You’re building on a sturdy foundation. Adding another piece to the puzzle. Giving people one more reason to remember you.

Over time, that recognition becomes authority, which is what tips the scales from likes and follows to fit calls and paid bookings.

So yes, go ahead and do that 30-day challenge. Yap away!

Just make sure you’ve first built a clearly-labeled shelf that is exclusively for you.

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